Here are some signs to help you recognize an abuser:
Keeping track of everything you do
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Monitoring what you’re doing all the time or asking where you
are and who you’re with every second of the day
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Demanding your passwords to social media sites and email
accounts
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Demanding that you reply right away to texts, emails, or calls
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Preventing or discouraging you from seeing friends or family
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Preventing or discouraging you from going to work or school
Being jealous, controlling, or angry
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Acting very jealous, including constantly accusing you of
cheating
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Having a quick temper, so you never know what you will do or say
that may cause a problem
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Controlling how you spend your money
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Controlling your use of medicines or birth control
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Making everyday decisions for you that you normally decide for
yourself (like what to wear or eat)
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Demeaning you
Putting you down, such as insulting your appearance,
intelligence, or activities
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Humiliating you in front of others
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Destroying your property or things that you care about
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Blaming you for his or her violent outbursts
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Physically harming or threatening to hurt you or loved ones
Threatening to you, the children, themselves, or people or pets
in your household
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Hurting you physically (such as hitting, beating, pushing,
shoving, punching, slapping, kicking, or biting)
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Using (or threatening to use) a weapon against you
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Threatening to harm himself or herself when upset with you
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Threatening to turn you in to authorities for illegal activity
if you report physical abuse
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Forcing you to have sex or other intimate activity
Forcing you to have sex when you don’t want to through physical
force or threats
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Assuming that consent for a sex act in the past means that you
must participate in the same acts in the future
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Assuming that consent for one activity means consent for future
activity or increased levels of intimacy (for example, assuming that kissing
should lead to sex every time)
You can
talk with someone who has been trained to help. Here is more information about
local helplines: https://www.facebook.com/safety/domesticviolenceresources
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